Just realized how huge the 16oz gloves were until I’ve put both on. I sure hope they’re gonna give me sexy delts.
So, you’ve heard of BJJ, seen pictures of the hot Kyra Gracie in her pink gi (hopefully, wearing pants) and read comments by practitioners gushing about how addictive the art is and how much fun they have ‘rolling on the mat’. So, curiosity has finally got to you and you’re signing up for your first trial class.
Congratulations and welcome to the wonderful world of Jiu-Jitsu and grappling! But first, here’s a list of friendly reminders to help you navigate your way smoothly and possibly, win some good training partners:
1. Be nice and respectful
A martial arts dojo is not just a regular gym. In a dojo, there are certain etiquette to be followed — be punctual, make a bow to greet your coach and teammates as you enter and leave the mat, don’t interrupt while your instructor’s teaching/demonstrating, wait until your instructor’s done with the demo before you start drilling, the list is endless but keep your eyes open and you’ll soon pick it up along the way.
2. Seriously, nobody cares if you’re a Karate black belt or that you bench 500lbs
You’re a beginner, act like a beginner — chances are, you’re still going to get your ass kicked. Don’t start showing off your Karate-chopping skills while your instructor is teaching. You’re here to learn BJJ, remember?
3. Be a good uke
On the mat, the most important person is your training partner. She is the person who will help you improve the most, that’s why you have to be extra nice to her. When drilling, make sure you neither resist too much nor act like a dead piece of meat. When rolling, keep your partner safe — who’s going to roll with you if she’s injured?
4. Personal hygiene is key
Show up to class like you’re going on a date. Wear clean clothes, put on some deodorant, change your panties or put on a fresh pantyliner before class. And please, please, wash your gi!
5. No bling blings on the mat and keep your nails short
No matter how nice your jewelries are, they’re never meant to be on the mat; ditto long nails. You could just scratch your partner with those, and again what did we say about being a good uke?
6. Wear appropriate no-gi attires
That’s grappling tights / fight shorts and rash guard / fitted t-shirt for you.
What to wear
What NOT to wear
7. No ego!
Whoever says that women don’t have ego is probably stuck in the Paleolithic era. We have just as bad a time admitting how much we suck as the other guy. But that’s the beauty of Jiu-Jitsu, you can’t bluff your way out of a submission. As a beginner, you WILL get tapped out plenty of times! But that’s how you learn, really. Just keep on going and you’ll be fine.
8. Jiu-Jitsu is hard, it’s nothing personal
So, after your first class you may find yourself a little demoralized from the awkward body mechanic drills and that you just can’t seem to grasp everything instantly. Don’t worry, it’s not you, it’s Jiu-Jitsu. The only solution is to keep on training.
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If I’m ever going to fight in MMA, this would be my perfect walkout song.
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